Friday, May 23, 2008
France 2008 - Farewells to Saint Vougay
May 14, 2008
It was a very long day, May 14th. We had done sightseeing, and a visit to the original grave yard of my father, a magnificent lunch at the home of Iffig's parents, the Town Hall meeting of the Mayors, the visit to the grave of Francois Le Roux, a visit to the B-17 Wing shed, a tour of Kerjean Castle, coffee and pastry at Jean-Claude Abgrall's home, and now it was time for a farewell reception at the Saint Vougay meeting room for a last toast and to say goodbyes. My heart was heavy to leave these wonderful, wonderful people.

I was very, very tired. So people and names blurred at the time. I could not think of all who I had met, of all who paid me kindnesses beyond any dream. In this picture were many of them. Martine (sitting next to Yvon Cretteau, a reporter for the newspaper Ouest France), Jean Louis, Dede, Herve Bramoulle, Monique, Jean Paul and Iffig. But there were more. I know Ronan Gestin (Brest44) sat and read my poetry chapbook and I was able to give him a copy of it when we returned to Iffig's. I know Michelle and Bernard hung in with me, still translating for me to the end. In fact,without Bernard, I never could have done the interview with Monsieur Cretteau.

Hervé, Marine and Jean Louis -- now seemingly old friends to me!

And the dearest man, Iffig. Always calm, always kind, always anticipating my
needs and thoughts.

And always having to open another bottle of RED wine!! For that woman!!

The charmers: Guénolé and Bernard - musicians and tall, smart, beautiful men.

And here she is--talking, talking, talking to the reporter while Martine
looks on. Poor Bernard interpreting the wild mind of an exhausted, happy,
and exhilerated woman.
Here was one of the articles from the newspaper:

And yes, we did, finally go home.
This was the farewell reception before I retired to Iffig's house for a beautiful dinner which Martine managed to cook after this whole day of work and visiting houseguests, and tributes and receptions. Martine is a miracle worker!

Look at this shrimp specialty salade she prepared our dinner!! Delicious and beautiful, like Martine herself.

We had an intimate gathering -- and it was lovely that Bernard and Michelle could stay so late for our last supper together. It was past my bedtime, and my heart and mind were reeling with the events of the past two days. I had to excuse myself to go to sleep at 11:30 pm. My dreams were the best.

This is the mural on the wall of Iffig's study. It was done by an artist friend of theirs named Christian. The scene is a loving rendition of "pieces" of the lives of
the Paluds. The cows, the musical instruments, the red cross for Martine's hospital work, the pastoral Brittany settings and little "hidden" clues are painted in, which Iffig says they are still discovering. A small face here, a symbol there. This lovely mural reminds me of my voyage to France. Brittany is one huge painting for me to remember, but there are all the faces, the symbols, the events painted in--the details of friendship and love bestowed on me, which will make this trip more unforgettable than anything before in my life.
I thank every single wonderful person in and around Saint Vougay who made this miracle possible for me. There are simply no words sufficient to express my thanks.
I will try to write letters soon. There is much yet to be done. But this is a start.
I love you all.
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this is so incredible, I don't know what to say. I am so touched, so happy for you, dear friend--but 'happy' is not the right word.
i LOVE that mural with the hidden symbols. I love those wine glasses. and I love Brittany. I want to live there!
i LOVE that mural with the hidden symbols. I love those wine glasses. and I love Brittany. I want to live there!
thank you, sweet Maryanne. Yes, I think you would respond to these sincere and loving people in a big way! And they to you! An amazing village of happy, giving and loving people who are smart, educated and well traveled too. Best of both worlds! I was transformed by them, I swear.
i've just found this, Bev, and read it straight through. Thank you so much for sharing all these wonderful people with us. I am so very happy that you found your father, at last.
I sat with tissue in hand as I read of your journey. I am so happy you had this experience and that it was such a beautiful one.
And what charming, gracious people you met! It filled my heart with warmth and awe.
And what charming, gracious people you met! It filled my heart with warmth and awe.
Thanks so much, Gigi. They really were spectacular people. I'll never forget this trip. Thanks for sharing it with me.
Hi Bev –
Well, I've now worked my way through each chapter and I've savored each one. What an amazing story, and what an amazing trip. I'm so glad you came back with all those photos. I can't tell you how heartwarming it was to see you in that lovely cemetery, standing by your father's final resting place, then to see you taken into the kind hands and warm hearts of those splendid people. How astonishing and thoughtful of them to recall and honor the sacrifice of the American boys who died helping them when they needed our help. That kind of grateful remembrance, offered out of nothing more than simple decency, shows me human beings behaving at their very best, and all of those fine people deserve in turn our gratitude and respect.
And what a trip for you, venturing overseas into the unknown, just as your father did all those years ago. He'd be proud of you, I'm sure of it, at your age, throwing off the warm blanket of home and going to do what you needed to do, despite the many obstacles such a trip presented. It sounds as though you went through it all, as I suspected you would: the travails, frustrations, and panicky moments of traveling; the lonely, emotional inner journey and soul-searching; and the redeeming moments of communion and affirmation with your human fellows.
Clearly your journey has graced and brightened your world; I hope it has eased your heart as well. You take care, kiddo.
Doug
Well, I've now worked my way through each chapter and I've savored each one. What an amazing story, and what an amazing trip. I'm so glad you came back with all those photos. I can't tell you how heartwarming it was to see you in that lovely cemetery, standing by your father's final resting place, then to see you taken into the kind hands and warm hearts of those splendid people. How astonishing and thoughtful of them to recall and honor the sacrifice of the American boys who died helping them when they needed our help. That kind of grateful remembrance, offered out of nothing more than simple decency, shows me human beings behaving at their very best, and all of those fine people deserve in turn our gratitude and respect.
And what a trip for you, venturing overseas into the unknown, just as your father did all those years ago. He'd be proud of you, I'm sure of it, at your age, throwing off the warm blanket of home and going to do what you needed to do, despite the many obstacles such a trip presented. It sounds as though you went through it all, as I suspected you would: the travails, frustrations, and panicky moments of traveling; the lonely, emotional inner journey and soul-searching; and the redeeming moments of communion and affirmation with your human fellows.
Clearly your journey has graced and brightened your world; I hope it has eased your heart as well. You take care, kiddo.
Doug
oh, Doug, it is SO lovely that you read it all -- you, the beginning of the idea that I could/would/should go to France, and your support with the idea of the chapbook sales. THANK you. I am utterly swept away by the entire experience, and it just gets better and better in the sunny inner experience of my memories and love.
Dearest Beverly,
How we have loved your blog with the story and photos of your visit to Brittany and Saint-Vougay. What a wonderful surprise it was for us to find that Andrew Jackson had a daughter and such a lovely one! He would be so proud of you. Speaking to you and sharing this common experience, we feel close to you and someday we hope to meet in person.
Since 2005 we have made three visits to Saint-Vougay and each time the people there have become closer to our hearts and dear friends. We loved seeing all your photos and so wished we could have been there to share those special moments with you.
We started our historic research 3 years ago and were able to locate 6 of the families of the crew and now we have 7!!!
We would love to share the letter Rod's family received from villager Francois LeRoux in 1945 and which was the reason we started our search. Bev, could you help me with that?
Bless you dear Beverly for sharing this heartfelt adventure with so many. I know it brings joy to so many hearts.
Destia and Rodney Hermes
How we have loved your blog with the story and photos of your visit to Brittany and Saint-Vougay. What a wonderful surprise it was for us to find that Andrew Jackson had a daughter and such a lovely one! He would be so proud of you. Speaking to you and sharing this common experience, we feel close to you and someday we hope to meet in person.
Since 2005 we have made three visits to Saint-Vougay and each time the people there have become closer to our hearts and dear friends. We loved seeing all your photos and so wished we could have been there to share those special moments with you.
We started our historic research 3 years ago and were able to locate 6 of the families of the crew and now we have 7!!!
We would love to share the letter Rod's family received from villager Francois LeRoux in 1945 and which was the reason we started our search. Bev, could you help me with that?
Bless you dear Beverly for sharing this heartfelt adventure with so many. I know it brings joy to so many hearts.
Destia and Rodney Hermes
So many people gave their youth for Peace. All theese guys were handsome, intelligent, skill, generous ... and in a while all was gone.
Gone ...the future, gone the moments of love, tenderness and pleasure so many mothers and fathers, children missed.
All gone ? no ! all can't be gone and forgotten. This joy of living remains today in our families, our parents, our children, our neighbourhood...So understand that you'll find here, in Brittany and others places, the peace and happyness your parents lost more than 65 years ago !
One of yours told me last October : "Now we are a same family" and so we are !
Cecile, our elder daughter is now 23, like theese airmen. Guenole, our son is 14, (like my parents on 1943/1944) Will they know War ?
I hope they don't, like many parents 65 years ago, but they must know, young people must remember and understand what means "the war", what means "going to fight" in Irak, Bosnia, Afghanistan, Africa... not only pictures.
Beverly tu es fantastique ! Qui aurait cru, il y a un mois à peine, que viendrait encore à nous une femme douée de tant d'énergie ?
Vous êtes toutes comme ça là-bas ?
!;-))
Thanks to all
Iffig
Gone ...the future, gone the moments of love, tenderness and pleasure so many mothers and fathers, children missed.
All gone ? no ! all can't be gone and forgotten. This joy of living remains today in our families, our parents, our children, our neighbourhood...So understand that you'll find here, in Brittany and others places, the peace and happyness your parents lost more than 65 years ago !
One of yours told me last October : "Now we are a same family" and so we are !
Cecile, our elder daughter is now 23, like theese airmen. Guenole, our son is 14, (like my parents on 1943/1944) Will they know War ?
I hope they don't, like many parents 65 years ago, but they must know, young people must remember and understand what means "the war", what means "going to fight" in Irak, Bosnia, Afghanistan, Africa... not only pictures.
Beverly tu es fantastique ! Qui aurait cru, il y a un mois à peine, que viendrait encore à nous une femme douée de tant d'énergie ?
Vous êtes toutes comme ça là-bas ?
!;-))
Thanks to all
Iffig
Thank you Destia, Rod, and Iffig,
What a marvelous journey this is, and to have such wonderful new friends and family is a gift unlike any other.
Joy is the right word, and peace is the answer, Iffig.
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What a marvelous journey this is, and to have such wonderful new friends and family is a gift unlike any other.
Joy is the right word, and peace is the answer, Iffig.
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